Bible taught me that women are born to be men's helper & supporter.
My mentor told me that we should be 'passive' rather than 'active' when starting a relationship.
People said that it supposed to be man who approaches woman, then the woman decides.
The others would say the same principle with different language and conditions.
butttttttttttttttttttttttt...
i never think it's fair enough for women :(
difficult to accept, that woman can only choose from the options that come to her.
*hey, it means there's a probability that she likes NONE of all the options
**and when there's no more options, she HAS TO choose one of them she doesn't really like :'(
***i really don't want thissssssssssssssssssssssssss!! amit amit tok tok tok :((
yes, we do have the right to say yes or no when man comes to our life,
which for my mentor, this is it! that's exactly the time when women DO have the right to choose.
but, do you see the differenceeeeeeeee????AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!
second thing.
most of women WILL EASILY FALL, to the man who intensely trying to get close to her.
classic story.
a man falls in love with a woman, the woman doesn't.
the time goes by.
their closeness makes the woman in love with that man at last.
and they (might be) live happily ever after.
*that's why, in most of relationships i see, the woman seems better than the man (physically at least).
:'((
i realize that, lucky are they, who love the one who love them back, get married, and grow old together.
God, i wanna get married with the one i love. not the one i pity.
please read this wisely. it's just my thought that haven't got the enlightment.
one day i'll be proud being a woman of choice, not a woman without choice.
Love Your Enemy
4 weeks ago
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lumoz, in my opinion, falling in love,is totally human's right, either he is man, or she is a woman.
what's wrong when it comes to a case that there's a woman who FIRSTLY felt that attraction to a man?
as a modern woman, i said, it's okay to make a move first. to show that feeling first, to be the initiative one, first.
Then, if the lucky man also has the same connection with us, please gentleman, you may take ur part too, to continue this story.
Anyway, We have our own way to create our story rite? :)
P.S. at least this is what i'm experiencing now. :p
cieee... arial n lumoz :)
for me it doesn't matter who's the doer for love... just follow what your heart tell u to do, sometime to experience great story of love, you don't need to think about the values around, or what might people said bout your feeling... either way... it's your feeling girl :)
so just express it... i'd do that if i were a woman ^^
ehm... answering the post title...
of course you can choose darling !
otherwise you'll end up with guy that you don't even like !
just like Joshua Harris said, "at least you have to choose someone that you will be okay to see him or her face every morning for the rest of your life"
means... both of man and woman have a right to choose their partner, physically appearance, characters and so on...
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